(760) 353-4673 | Call Us(442) 225-5000 | Text Us (800) 712-HELP (4357) | 24/7 Hotline
548 W. Main Street Suite B, El Centro, CA 92243
Phone | (760) 353-4673 Text | (442) 225-5000 24/7 Hotline | (800) 712-HELP (4357)
Monday | Closed Tuesday | 2pm - 6pm Wednesday | Closed Thursday | 11am - 3pm Friday | Closed *Appointment times available upon request, according to volunteer availability.
*We are located between 5th and 6th streets in El Centro. On Main St., there is a walkway next to Mende's Groom Room. Walk toward the parking lot in the back. Real Hope is the last door on the the right.
If you are driving, Go through the Union Bank Drive-thru, and turn right. We are 5 spaces down on the right. We are the first door on the left, walking down the passageway.
You are not alone in this situation. The two of you can get through this. She needs you now more than ever. It’s vitally important that you provide her with the support she needs --emotionally and physically. Here are some tips on how you do this.
Talk with her and listen to her. Keep the lines of communication open between the two of you at all times. DO NOT close yourself off emotionally because this situation involves more than just you!
Be there for her. She needs you now more than ever before.
Talk with the people who care. In addition to keeping the lines of communication open between the two of you, it’s important to discuss the situation with parents and others who’ll be directly affected. Keeping this a secret will only add to the stress – yours and hers.
Educate yourself. Collect information and seek advice from people you trust.
Be honest with her and yourself. Own and share at all times how you feel. You’ll be surprised at how much it will help her to know that you share the same concerns. You’ll be surprised at what you learn about yourself. And you’ll be proud that you're standing tall together!
Don’t run from your responsibilities. The more you try to avoid this situation, the harder things will get for the three of you. Now. And forever.
Don’t pressure her to do what you want. You both need to work together at all times. You're a team now!
Don't stop communicating with her. Express your feelings and add your input whenever it’s needed.